So, in an effort to become a more effective parent, to become the mom I have always wanted to be, I have written myself a letter. I have printed it out, taped it to my bathroom mirror, to remind me what is important in my life and why it is important.
Dear Tiffany,
Good
morning! Today is a beautiful day that
you get to spend with your precious children.
They truly are precious. They
will not be children forever. As you
have witnessed, the years are already flying by!
Why did
you become a mom? Why did you dream of being a mom for all of your life? To enjoy your children, to make them happy,
to give them moments to cherish every day.
They may remember those special trip or special projects, but they will
remember a happy childhood because you made everyday special, just by being
there, listening, playing, learning together and loving each other.
I know
that some days you may need a break, but just think of your precious girls all
grown up and moved out of your house. Play
with them TODAY. Listen to them
TODAY. Love them TODAY.
Cherish them TODAY.
Today
is a day to make a memory. You never
know what small gesture will touch your child, make your child who they
are. So go ahead, give your babies the
best day you can!
Sincerely,
You